Your vulnerability is the key to connection. But consistency in that vulnerability is truly how others feel safe with you

We do events all the time…anyone in the advocacy space does them pretty consistently…& we leave ways for folks to contact us. Some of us even leave out cards & we don’t even know who takes them bc they are left out on a table for anyone to grab.

A lot of the time the follow-up is: I love what you’re doing, how can I get involved? or: We’d love to have you come out & partner on an event. While both those are humbling, nothing is more humbling (& meaningful) than they type of reach out you see on the 2nd slide here ➡️.

Got that text msg last nt (bc I put my cell on my cards), from someone who was in the audience for the SameHere Citi Field nt w the Mets in the beginning of May. It’s now 2 months later, & someone I’ve never spoken w personally, on the phone, is texting me at a late hour, bc they’re in their most vulnerable state.

Why share? I want people to see how your vulnerability is literally your key to connection – but that when you are vulnerable consistently, you are a safe place – an individual or a team – for folks to trust to open up to & lean on, in the most critical times. 

Consistency in this case, is w the Mets & their awesome team. SameHere Citi went into Year 2.  @mikesweetney a former pro athlete was there by my side a 2nd yr in a row being vulnerable. Our doctors on our alliance Rosa & Gruttadauri were representing a 2nd yr in a row.  We sat w a group of fans for the 2nd yr in a row…& the Mets used their video board to keep the message to all fans, consistent, for a 2nd yr in a row. Slides➡️.

As Theo often says: “We collect people. That is our job description.” He says that bc that’s what people need…they need a safe place that’s shown consistent vulnerability, that they can come to in their time of need…bc we ALL have times of need, & there is too much judgment in our society right now.

I share this as what I hope is a motivation – to anyone who reads this. Please use your power of vulnerability. Please open up. Please be consistent. There is no greater purpose than helping & even saving another life. We need to create that network of safety in society & you can be part of that large safety net!

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