10/6/2022 Having Faith In Something Bigger Than Ourselves Doesn’t Remove Pain

I dont think in 4 yrs of sharing, I’ve ever written abt religion.  And to me, faith doesn’t mean/doesn’t have to mean “religion” in the formal sense.

You can have faith in anything – a god, the universe, spirituality, some higher power, nature, your connection to a community, etc. 

Yesterday was Yom Kippur – hence the timing of this post. I’m not the most fervent “follower” of my religion as far as going to church/temple. I do love the idea of having traditions – for the purposes of fam & rhythm & keeping to a set of values (not to mention it’s a good excuse to see my adorable nieces ;)). 

But there’s something abt a connection to something bigger than ourselves, that brings calm & meaning & purpose. Yesterday – what’s considered a “high holiday” in my religion, I could‘ve just watched the service on the live stream & went abt the rest of my day. I think as we’ve gotten more & more used to tech, moving away from formal religious practice has become the norm.

But I decided not to do that…& to go to the home town I grew up in, & attend the service in the same temple I grew up in. 

The plaques for 3 of my grandparents & uncle who’ve passed were on the wall together there. It was nice to visit their plaques & feel connected to them. It was nice to watch & participate (as much as Im able to remember these days), in the traditions of the service. 

Yom Kippur provides a reset & a cleansing in a way – a chance annually for you to repent for sins from the yr (yours & on behalf of your community), & start fresh. I even fasted for the day (monumental for someone who loves food)! 

What’s my pt in sharing all this? Spirituality is a part of MH. It doesn’t mean you have to go to church or temple or the mosque. It doesn’t mean you have to believe in some figure. But connection & purpose matter.

We live on a rock spinning in the middle of a vast universe & we don’t know why.  Tho we try to avoid the “why” question & busy ourselves w things like work & hobbies, the question is in the back of most of our minds. 

It feels good & refreshing & grounding to feel part of something bigger than yourself. Impt ingredient in sound MH.

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