My career in psychiatry evolved from a desire to live a truly vibrant life. At a young age, I personally learned about the mysteries of life and death through several losses, as well as being exposed to many different cultures and how they create meaning in life. I became deeply curious about how to live a meaningful life. I studied how to achieve a vital state of being and true physical health – how to create an energized body, an emotional state of love, strength, kindness and generosity, a balanced nervous system with an intelligent and agile brain, and a deep knowing of one’s authentic expansive purpose. I love seeing people come to life – their eyes shining, their expressions animated, as they tap into their true passion. Like everyone, challenging life experiences have led me to understand the universality of human pain and suffering, yet the wisdom, strength and beauty within human beings that can meet and transmute pain. I recently read a passage on the beauty of the oyster that designs the pearl. What was once an irritant to the oyster, first causes the oyster to create a luminescent lining. Then, layer upon layer, this reaction to pain develops into a rare and unique pearl. In the yoga tradition, a god named Shiva takes poison and turns it into nectar. These biological and mythic metaphors speak to our capacity to take pain and, instead of having ongoing suffering, use this pain to metabolize transformation. Like the oyster, we can layer on skill after skill until what was once painful becomes a pearl of intelligence. We can thus develop a mastery with which to face the darkness in our lives.